My church has been very generous in giving me some time off recently to care for my wife and family. Sara’s breast cancer has spread to her brain, and continues to grow there despite multiple surgeries, radiation treatments, and drugs. So she has at times been unable to walk, and still cannot drive or use the stairs. Having more time at home to invest in my family has revealed something to me: I’m even more selfish than I realized. I used to think I’d be more patient and spend more quality … [Continue reading...]